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11 Jun

It’s not every day – you’re a flipping through channels (especially when you don’t watch much TV) and come across something that truly inspires you. Well for me that day was today. I ran across Dr. Randy Pausch. He recapped the original speech he had given as his “last lecture” at Carnegie Mellon. The wrinkle in all of this, he is dying from pancreatic cancer. Therefore, he used his last lecture to discuss the life lessons he learned and gave advice on how you can achieve your very own childhood dreams. The truth was, he really didn’t create this speech for his 400 people at Carnegie Mellon who came; he did it for only three people, his three children.

Here are some notable quotes that Randy said that stuck with me:

•    The Inspiration and Permission to Dream is Huge.

•    You can’t control the cards you’re dealt, just how you play the hand.

•    Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.

•    If there’s anything I want to do so badly, I should have already done it.

•    Find the best in everybody. Wait long enough, and people will surprise and impress you. It might even take years, but people will show you their good side. Just keep waiting.

•    If you want to achieve your dreams, you better learn to work and play well with others. You have to live with integrity.

•    When you are doing something badly and no one’s bothering to tell you anymore, that’s a very bad place to be. Your critics are the ones still telling you they love you and care.

•    Better to fail spectacularly than do something mediocre.

•    Understand the importance of People vs. Things

•    Brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want something badly enough. They are there to keep out the other people.

•    Be prepared. Luck is where preparation meets opportunity.

And my favorite quote from his lecture was:

•    Never stop dreaming. If you live your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself, and the dreams will come to you.

I believe Dr. Randy Pauch’s philosophy and courage is a true inspiration for all of us. Hopefully we can all ground ourselves this way, as we choose the way we live our lives.

I realized that the show I had just watched was an actual rerun but then found the original lecture. For those of you that haven’t heard his entire speech by now, I encourage you all to dedicate at least 77 minutes and watch it here:

It will inspire you, as it inspired me.

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7 Responses to “Childhood Dreams”

  1. @6 Says:

    I think a lot of people spend to much time dreaming. Lets start doing.

    “Dreams are for those who sleep, life is for us to keep.”

  2. christy Says:

    Beautiful last words by Dr. Paush. My favorite line was when he talked about, “you can’t control the cards youre’ dealt, just how you play the hand.” I think too many people live in resentment or anger as to what cards they are dealt with (why me? poor me) and feeling sorry for themselves. Yes, life is not easy and not fair, a lesson everyone should have learned by first grade. However, life is too short to live in bitterness, so lift yourself up and take charge of “how you play the hand.”

  3. cookie Says:

    I was in tears couple times while watching his video. Very inspiring. I will encourage my kids to dream and to dream big…it all start there.

  4. Shivneet Dhaliwal Says:

    Everyone,

    For those who are interested in knowing more about Dr. Pausch, something that I had been following for past few months now:

    http://download.srv.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/news/index.html

    This is Dr. Pausch’s ‘Update’ page. It contains posts about what is going on with his health and other issues.

    Hope it lends a new perspective to us whenever we complain/fret/regret ….

    Regards,
    Shivneet Dhaliwal

  5. Kristina Says:

    This was very inspiring. Thank you for sharing this. I was so touched that I forwarded the video to all my friends and family in the UK.

  6. aspasia Says:

    thank you for sharing this video … I enjoyed listening to Randy and reading about his academic background and fun projects … he is a remarkable professor, a rare renaissance man.

  7. MD Says:

    G, just wanted to say a few words. I got to say I’m proud man, you have a very inspiring and entrepreneurial feel about you, which is something I see in my self. Looking forward to you book. Though i followed the typical Indian-American career, being a doctor. I always wanted and still want to be an entrepreneur one day. Proud of you man. Very impressed with the way you did it!

 

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