I’ll probably have to say not only in the world of business – but in the grand scheme of things…in order to thrive in today’s society – you have to grow a thick skin. In most instances, we do live in a world that can provide ample negative energy. And if all you do is – dwell on that energy – you basically become a weaker person and move further away from your goals. Countless times, I’ve heard people tell me that I was going to fail or that I shouldn’t do X, Y or Z (I’ve got plenty of those examples in my book). Or, more or less distract me from the end game, which was pursuing something I really wanted to do (let that be in business or personal).
So, one of the things I did very early on in life is grow a very thick skin. Some people live in a world of pessimism and that translates to the negative energy they exude. I like to live in a world of optimism – which is if I believe I want to do something – I’m not going to let anyone stop me for doing it.
That independence leads to confidence which becomes the only voice that matters. I encourage all of you to follow your heart’s desire on any matter – and never let anyone stop you from doing what you love. It might be painful – but after a while – the skin becomes thick enough to handle anything…
It works for me.
Tags: business, growing a thick skin, philosophy, society, strength
June 12th, 2008 at 9:06 am
Couldn’t agree more! I think people who are so fed up of their own lives, who have no life, and those who are so miserable in their own lives bring others down, especially to those who are successful like yourself. Best thing to do is to ignore, may not be easy, but indeed the best.
I recently came to know about you from one of my co-workers and have been reading about your success. I must say, I am impressed and can’t wait to read your book. Being successful and in the public eye you are, you are bound to receive negativity from arrogant people. However, know that there are many more people who are happy for your success.
July 11th, 2008 at 6:18 pm
I completely agree with what your saying about negative vs. positive energy, though I think of it more as not taking anything personally, and living in flow. If you’re thick-skinned, how can the love and support filter in? Maybe let it all flow through – the good, the bad, the ugly, and the beautiful – but let go of what you find false, and focus on the positive.
January 13th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Hi, my name is Walid Suliman. I am a college student and I am doing well in school (academically). However, I still have trouble dwelling over things and my skin does need grow thicker. What are some steps that I can take to growing a thick skin.